Who doesn’t want more busywork?

It’s no secret that I’m not a fan of generative AI. I can feel my colleagues’ eyes rolling before the words “but the copyright infringement and environmental impact” slip from my lips yet again. (Well, not all my colleagues. Some are staunchly anti-GenAI, as well.) I have no interest in using it to “make my job easier” or to write things for me – or to have it hallucinate incorrect answers to research questions that I would have otherwise rabbit holed down. (I mean, seriously, stop trying to take away my joy.)

Then I read an opinion piece that added to my list of reasons of why I will continue not to use GenAI: busywork.

According to this piece, more and more people (at a seriously alarming rate) are turning to GenAI to ‘help’ them with things. According to the piece, people are feeling more independent. But in reality, AI is creating a massive transfer of labor.

You have my attention.

Consider this analogy provided by the author Dr. Carl Benedikt Frey – the washing machine. In the 1800s, laundering was an occupation (mostly in cities and for people who could afford to pay someone to do their laundry). This was a lot of work: “hauling water, chopping fuel, boiling linens in lye, scrubbing each garment by hand against a washboard, wringing, drying, starching and ironing with heavy flat irons heated on a stove.” A lot of work – and it was all paid labor.

Enter the washing machine. It changed laundering – but it did not disappear the labor. It instead shifted it, unpaid, onto the household – “The laundress lost her job. The housewife gained a chore.”

This is a pattern we can see repeating over time. Consider self-checks at stores. Consider the last time you consulted a travel agent (ask youngsters what a travel agent even is…). You don’t even need to visit a bank to deposit a check anymore. Each of these shifts the labor (again, unpaid) onto you. Not a big deal, no.

Until you realize that people are using platforms like Ch@tGPT to answer medical questions or even do their taxes.*

There is nuance in both those examples that an LLM just cannot replicate. But also – it’s shifting that labor, unpaid and (more important/scary) unskilled, onto us. We are doing more with less. While we may not notice the additional labor when we scan and pack our own groceries, these smaller tasks add up. As the opinion piece points out, there’s a name for that: “opportunity cost neglect — the well-documented tendency to overlook the value of what we give up when the cost is time rather than money.” And maybe the time is worth painting that fence rather than paying someone to do it. But asking Ch@tGPT how to paint that fence? Well, we need a new word that talks about “opportunity cost neglect” in addition to “extra resources wasted when there are already other options available to us.”

Making the choice to add this busywork (i.e. unpaid labor) onto ourselves, we do change the way the world works. No one is measuring the time you spend scanning your groceries or doing your taxes at home or painting that fence. As more of us do these things, the labor stats disappear, along with the jobs. Corporate profits go up – and we’re left feeling overburdened. From the opinion piece: “The laundress disappeared from the statistics long before she disappeared from memory. Many more trades and professions are on the verge of the same shift. The A.I. revolution may not have taken your job yet. But it has already put you to work.”

(*Some people will say that platforms like Ch@tGPT are democratizing because not everyone can afford to pay a professional. BUT. We don’t need to ask Ch@tGPT what we can make with the ingredients in our fridge – there’s already an app for that. We don’t need to ask it how to fix our fridge’s ice machine – there are already YouTube videos by experts that can walk us through that. Ch@tGPT is not solving new problems. It’s poorly attempting to solve problems we already had solutions for – and doing so using more energy/resources and built on the theft of other people’s work.)

First Friday Rec: The Bookshop

Title: The Bookshop: A History of the American Bookstore
Author: Evan Friss
Genre: Nonfiction
Pages: 416
Publication Date: Aug 6, 2024
StoryGraph* Moods: Informative, Reflective, Inspiring
How I Stumbled Upon This Book: Saw it in a bookshop. 🙂
Other Books by this author: On Bicycles: A 200 Year History of Cycling in New York City and The Cycling City
*StoryGraph also offers content warnings.

Description: A history of bookshops drawing on “oral histories, archival collections, municipal records, diaries, letters, and interviews with leading booksellers” is probably the unsexiest way to describe this book – but that is what it is at its most basic. On the page, it’s a fascinating look at the U.S. institution that reaches all the way back to Franklin’s first shop in Philadelphia up to today’s battle against big box stores and that mammoth online platform that sells, well, everything.

At its heart, this is a love letter to bookshops – it’s charming in its understanding of what a sanctuary bookshops can be, as well as their importance in our history and in our present. If you love bookshops, you will love this book about bookshops.

Why I recommend this book: It’s probably not a shock, given the description, why I would have been drawn to read this – and why I would love it. And of course I’m going to recommend it. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ But the fact that it’s about bookshops is not the only reason I’m recommending it – it’s simply the reason I picked it up when I saw it on a table in at my local bookshop.

It is, quite honestly, interesting to see how the bookshops we know today came to be – not only the indie ones we love, but also those big box shops and the online platforms. Because, well, we can’t talk about one without the other. Their histories are intertwined.

Bez0s “was, however, an excellent student and signed up for Bookselling school. Or the closest thing to it – a four-day workshop held in conjunction with the ABA conference in Portland. The instructor was Richard Howorth, then president of the ABA, and owner of the legendary Square Books in Oxford, Mississippi. Bez0s was one of fifty pupils taking notes on the basics: inventory, marketing, accounting, and customer relations.”

“Years later, Howorth regretted having taught that one student who kept quiet about his intentions. ‘If I saw him today,’ he said, ‘I’d probably whop him upside the head.'”
~ Evan Friss, The Bookshop

James Burrows, Final Cut

I still remember seeing the first advertisement for a ‘new sitcom coming soon’ – Will & Grace. A show about a man and a woman – she’s an interior designer, and he’s a lawyer; she’s straight, and he’s gay. I remember being drawn to it – excited to watch it. Though I couldn’t have told you why then.

Well, it was the late 90s, and I lived in a small town (I mean, really small – not small when someone says they come from a small town and then measures their town’s population in the tens of thousands – smaller) – and it was pre-internet for us. Our connections to the outside world were the tourists that flooded our town every summer – and TV.

And so, this little show gave me a connection to a (couple) worlds I otherwise wouldn’t have had the chance to connect with before.

What I didn’t know at the time was that the director of this little show (which would go on to be not so little) was a man by the name of James Burrows (or Jimmy Burrows). This man who was responsible, already, for some of my favorite TV, would go on to direct every single episode of this new show that would change very important things in this world (actual studies have been done). Just a little sitcom about four friends that would have an impact on the way the world saw people.

I ended up loving the show, and early in the run, my best friend also came out to me – he was the Wilma to much less neurotic Grace. I would have given just about anything to hop on a plane, fly to LA, and watch a live recording – but alas, I was a broke high school student and then a broke college student while it was on the air.

I did own all the seasons in DVD (still do) and watched all the commentary and bloopers (blooper reels are the BEST thing to come out of the DVD era). During it, the cast often spoke about Burrows – how he worked, how he listened to the music of the comedy. How he would walk back and forth off stage, not watching the actors, but listening. How he cared about the stories and these characters. (I mean, did you catch the part where I said he directed every single episode? All 246 of them.)

The show went for eight seasons before ending its run – and my hopes of ever getting to see it live.

Well, chances are, you probably know where this is going. The era of the reboot. Most of which, honestly, sucked and never should have happened. But despite all that, when W&G announced a return… I was ecstatic. Now, it wasn’t a perfect show. It had some problematic storylines, and some aspects didn’t age well. But nostalgia is strong, and this show was a lifeline. So it was coming back – and I was hoping and praying that they didn’t ruin it.

Plus – I finally had my chance.

I registered for and received a guaranteed ticket to the recording of the second episode of the third reboot season, hopped a plane to LA, and sat front row for the live recording of this not-so-little show and got to see the magic for myself.

And, I got to watch as James Burrows paced back and forth, as he listened to the music of the comedy, as he ‘bupped’ when something felt off to his ear. He was the conductor who was so in tune with his cast and crew, who all so clearly respected the man, that a simple ‘bup’ brough the entire production to a halt.

Click image to see original on Instagram.

I loved the entire experience (aside from how hot it was in LA that day), and when I opened up my insta the next day (already back home because I was in LA for less than twelve hours), I found the photo to the left in my feed with an announcement that the current reboot season (the third reboot, eleventh overall) would be the last. I couldn’t help but be quite relieved that I had gone. I hadn’t missed my chance after all.

This announcement was also why I found myself back there two weeks later. My friend had gotten tickets to another recording and asked me to come along. Why wouldn’t I say yes? More magic. More laughter. And more watching James Burrows doing the thing he did so very well.

I had to laugh a little when on the fight back home, on a day I should have been in in-service for the new school year (I took a personal day – I’m allowed), the plane seemed to have gone out of its way and dipped it’s wing at this precise moment:

That’s the college where I teach. Down there, all my colleagues were in in-service, and I was not – because I was up above them flying back from LA. It was almost like the pilot wanted to instill some guilt. But it didn’t work. I had had an excellent adventure with my friend seeing a live recording of a show we both love.

So why this reminiscing all of a sudden? Well, if you’ve not heard, James Burrows passed away last week. It’s hard not to reminisce when things like this happen. And I can’t help but feel lucky to have been given the opportunity to see him work his magic in person – not once, but twice.

Twisters

Here’s the thing – I love a good storm. Have since I was a child. I great up in one of those midwestern towns where the storm rolls in, and you can see everyone out on their porches watching. My favorite activity is to curl up on a couch with a comfy blanket, a cup of tea, and a book and listen to the rain outside. I also believe that rain makes for the perfect lullaby when one is trying to fall asleep.

But the second it tips over into the possibility of a tornado, I’m a complete mess.

Maybe this stems from growing up in tornado alley in a home without a basement. Maybe it stems from that time my extended family all had to cram into our bathroom during my first communion party and hope for the best. Maybe it was watching the film Twister and then having nightmares for weeks or me-sized tornadoes chasing me around. Who can say? ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ ( (And, no, I did not see the sequel.)

When my family moved to a small town in Wisconsin, I didn’t know that we were moving to a place that got a tornado once every twenty-five to thirty years (nor was this a reason for moving there) – but I was glad for it. (Not-so-fun fact: My mom and I almost drove through the one that hit in 1998 because cell phones weren’t that common, and we had gone to sturge to run for errands – bet she’s glad I begged to stop at the CD store before heading home. Did I mention this was 1998? 😂)

I’ve moved a bit around the Midwest during my life, mostly hopping across the WI/IL border and back (plus one side question to MN). I currently live in WI, which sees, on average, about twenty-three tornadoes in a year. June is our twisty-est month, followed by July.

Well, we got an early start this year. We’re not even halfway through June, and we’ve already had thirty-one touch downs.

(For a comparison, IL averages sixty to sixty-two a year and has so far had a hundred and forty, making it the fourth year in a row with more than a hundred. I’d been thinking seriously about moving back to IL, but I have to say that this little stat is enough to keep me where I am.)

You know who don’t get (many) tornadoes? The Scots. Just sayin’. 👀🤣

Are tornadoes a thing where you live? Or do you have to deal with other things like hurricanes? Earthquakes? Volcanic eruptions? It’s sort of amazing we’ve managed to survive on this planet at all sometimes.

Wonderbox: Five Brilliant Things

I tend to consume a lot of British content. Through this, I have also stumbled across some fun podcast formats. In many cases, the format involves learning about someone’s life through a very specific lens, which I find rather enjoyable. (If you have read past blogs of mine, you likely already know this – I’m quite fond of Brett Goldstein’s Films to Be Buried With, which uses the lens of films to learn about people.)

While listening to these sorts of podcasts, it’s hard not to think of what my own answers might be, so I thought I’d do this exercise out loud again. In this case, it’s Five Brilliant Things with Russell Howard (British comedian). This podcast “celebrates the stuff in our lives that makes it worth getting up in the morning. Each week a different special guest sits down with Russell to explain the things from their lives that bring them happiness.”

The podcast starts off with this sort of intro: “Hello, I’m Russell Howard, and this is Wonderbox. A Wonderbox is a place where you keep the things that remind you of the stuff you adore. So I thought it would be cool to do a podcast where I ask some people what they put in their Wonderbox and have a chat about the most amazing moments in their lives.” The guests are mostly other British comedians, though there may be names you recognize if you scroll through – he’s so far got over a hundred episodes.

Item 1: A stuffed Donald Duck that my parents bought second hand at a garage sale for a quarter when I was a toddler. It became my favorite toy, and I imbued him with so much juju that my mother couldn’t bring herself to put his head under water when she would give him periodic baths. Mostly, it’s the stories surrounding this duck (which yes, I do still have) – like how when I was four or five, a boy up the street, who was ten, took my duck and wouldn’t give it back. I don’t remember this, but apparently I decked him and knocked him out cold. (That last bit may be apocryphal ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ but it’s a family story that’s still told to this day.) I also once rewrote the lyrics of The Beatles’ “Taxman” to “Quacksman” and was just wandering around the house making Donald sing it (I think I was seven?) (My dad called out, “Those aren’t the words,” and I, probably rather sassily, called back, “They are when Donald’s singing it!”). A lot of memories from my childhood are tied to that duck.

Item 2: My nana’s sweatshirt. It’s a sweatshirt she kept in the coat closet that she would wear on her walks around the neighborhood when the temps dipped. It has a design on the front of folks walking with umbrellas – all you can see are their booted feet, a long jacket, and the umbrella. Above it, there is text that says, “Neither rain nor sleet nor snow shall keep my from my walk.” And until about eight months before she passed, it didn’t. She was my favorite person – there’s just something magical about grandmothers, and I had the best ones. I hate talking on the phone (Hate. It.), but I could spend hours chatting away with her. The sweatshirt now hangs in my closet – it’s not something I ever wear; it’s simply a reminder of her. I actually just searched online for it to see if I could find an image:

I don’t love that the site that the image comes from calls it vintage when it’s from the ’90s… I mean… Ouch.

Item 3: A recipe that my papa wrote out and is framed in my kitchen. It’s for his Brandy Old Fashioned. My mom has never been much of a drinker, but every Christmas, Papa would make her his old fashioned. I remember she let me try it once, and I hated it (but I was also in my teens and not well-versed in the way of booze…despite living in the booziest of states at the time). I had no idea that one day it would be my favorite cocktail (though with whiskey – not a huge fan of brandy). When my papa was diagnosed with cancer, he wrote out the recipe for me on a notecard so that if there was ever a Christmas he wasn’t around, we could make Mom her drink. There are a number of things in my house that remind me of him (he gifted me his hole-in-one golf ball), but I love his penmanship – it’s so much like him, ordered and neat. Makes me smile when I see it.

Item 4: My dad’s drum set. Some of my best memories as a child were when he’d set up his drums in the living room, put on a record, and play along. We’d have a little party, my sister and I dancing and singing along. I know he was disappointed when neither of us picked drums when we joined our school band, which is certainly not the hope most parents have regarding their child’s choice of instrument. These days, I’d love the chance to learn how to play them. There’s still time.

Item 5: My first passport. While we ‘traveled’ a lot growing up, we traveled to the same spot (sometimes thirteen treks in one summer). We went camping in Door County. And then when we moved there, we traveled back to IL to see family. And we had one side quest to Mayo Clinic when I was thirteen. But that’s it. I didn’t travel out of the Midwest for the first time until I was in college – and I fell in love with it. I loved experiencing new places and learning about them. At the time, I didn’t have my own car, so the thought that I could just hop into one and go anywhere…well, it felt out of my reach. But I caught the travel bug. Hard. I took every chance I had to travel – I was a member of my college’s Habitat for Humanity chapter, and we did collegiate challenge trips every winter and spring break. These trips opened my eyes to the fact that I really could just get in a car and go anywhere. (Well, assuming I had money for gas and food. And a car to get into.) The first time I left the country, I got that same feeling – like, holy s#|t, I really can just do this… I had so many opportunities drop into my lap – a chance to go to Kenya (my first trek out of the states) to volunteer at a school for girls, to be the assistant director of a study abroad, to participate in a professional exchange with an English Translation professor in China. A simple passport could open the world to me. That first trip changed me, and I’m grateful for it. So that first passport with that first stamp acts as a representation of that.

What five brilliant things would you put in your Wonderbox?

First Friday Rec: My Friends

Title: My Friends
Author: Fredrik Backman
Translation by: Neil Smith
Genre: Contemporary Fiction
Pages: 436
Publication Date: 6 May 2025
StoryGraph* Moods: emotional, hopeful, finny
How I Stumbled Upon This Book: tasked it for book club
Other Books by this author: A Man Called Ove, And Every Morning the Way Home Gets Longer and Longer, Anxious People, Beartown, Britt-Marie Was Here, My Grandmother Asked Me to Tell You She’s Sorry, The Deal of a Lifetime, Things My Son Needs to Know About the World, Us Against You, Winners
*StoryGraph also offers content warnings (highly recommend checking those out first).

Description: It’s all tied to a painting. When most people view it, they see the sea. Louisa, however, sees the three tiny figures on the end of the long pier. What started as a life goal of simply seeing the painting in person takes her on a journey to discover what ever became of those kids.

Why I recommend this book: I knew nothing of this book aside from a lot of people were talking about it (and even that I learned second hand). I was tasked this for one of my book clubs – and I DEVOURED it. I’m a fan of character-driven stories. Check. Braided stories. Check. Reveals that are surprising but also earned. Check.

I know I know – a story all spurred by a painting of the sea? I promise – it’s tender and joyful, filled with emotional moments but also laughter. The deeper into the stories of those tiny figures, and Louisa herself, the more the writing propels you forward.

But if for nothing else, read it for the writing. It’s a masterclass in voice, as well as building characters.

As I noted above, I would recommend checking out the content warnings before you begin. There are plot points that are not easy. They do make the high points all that much higher, though.

I don’t read reviews of books before I start because I don’t want them to color my reading. I did take a peek after, though, and it’s interesting to see how polarizing this book was for Backman’s readers. This is my first Backman, so I don’t have the others to compare them to – I might feel differently if I did. (I did see the Hanks film A Man Called Otto, but I didn’t know it was based on a Backman book until after I read this.) Also, my book club was pretty well split on it – so take the above with a grain of salt. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

“You’re an artist if you create something! You’re an artist if you don’t see the world the way it is, if you hate white walls! No one else decides what art is, no one can stop you loving whatever you like, the cynics and critics can have control of all the crap on the planet…but then can’t decide how hard your heart beats! Become whatever you want, but don’t become one of them. Art is a fragile enough light as it is. It can be blown out by a single sigh. Art needs friends, with our bodies against the wind and our hands cupped around the flame, until it’s strong enough to burn brightly with its own power. Until it’s an inferno. Unstoppable.”
~ Fredrik Backman translated by Neil Smith, My Friends

AFT: The Art Garage

The Art Garage is one of the featured locations in my novel All Falling Things. In the story, it’s an old mechanic shop turned art gallery in Chicago – five stall capacity with the glass garage doors left in place, concrete cleaned of all stains and polished, and moveable walls constructed to section off individual spaces or shorten the galley if a show can’t fill the entire thing.

In reality, this is an art gallery in Green Bay, WI, that I first encountered when I lived there for college. I thought the concept was great, and I opted to transport it to Chicago for this story.

Photos from Trip Advisor

If you are ever in the city (Green Bay, that is), stop by and check out the latest show or shop the local author fair, maybe take a class.

If you want to visit the Chicago version of the gallery, well, you can once the book comes out. The gallery becomes a second home, a sanctuary, for one of the characters to find their path in life. It was fun to get to live within its walls, even if on a page, and create shows and art pieces to fill the space.

Another Year of Camping

I’m not gonna lie – this school year took it out of me.

If you didn’t already know, in addition to being a writer, I also teach writing at a small community college. Most of my course load is composition (those first-year writing classes that no one would take if they weren’t required to) with a few Humanities and Creative Writing courses sprinkled in. It’s always been a struggle, especially in those comp courses, to get students to care about writing and understand why it is still such an important skill (hint: teaching writing is about far more than teaching them to write).

A few years ago, though, my job became exponentially more difficult. A new tech was on the market, and now students didn’t have to spend much time at all on their writing. Or their thinking. Or their thinking about writing. No more moments of discomfort – because this new tech could think and write for them. And suddenly, I began spending too much of my time providing feedback to a software that is no more intelligent than predictive text. (While it’s easy to tell the difference between student writing and writing slopped together by something else, it’s not always super easy to prove.)

Now, I’m not so old (or old fashioned) not to understand that there are tasks that I would absolutely pass off to something else to free up time to do the things that I actually want to do – but those things are laundry and the dishes. Those roomba-like lawn mowers also seem like a stellar idea.

But learning? Sitting in those moments of discomfort while figuring something out? Creating?

Absolutely not. I love those moments. I’m eager for them.

So it’s a little bit tricky for me to understand what has happened to make students SO uncomfortable with discomfort that they risk failing an assignment or a course…or even expulsion – just to avoid it. (Not to mention they are paying to take these classes. If anyone is devaluing the degrees earned in college, it is not the institutions providing them – it’s this tech and people who choose to use it for this purpose.)

The workarounds for teachers are not simple. The more we try to create assignments that a large language model can’t respond to, the better that LLM gets at faking being human. Aside from sitting students in a classroom, removing all access to tech (which isn’t then accessible for some disabled folks), and making them hand write their papers in front of us (which can’t be done in an online course, not to mention completely flies in the face that writing is a process and takes time and thought and revision…), there’s not much we can do aside from threatening a failing grade if they are caught. And this year demonstrated more than ever that a failing grade is not enough of a deterrent to stop someone from outsourcing their homework (and therefore their learning).

I do refuse to use this tech – in my teaching, in my writing. Not because I’m, as I was called in a professional development session, a tech-denier. (I’ve spent my whole life learning new tech after new tech – and embracing most of it.) But because this particular tech robs me of the joy. And if I need more of anything in today’s world, it’s joy. Joy in watching a concept finally click in a student’s mind. Joy in crafting narratives and exploring worlds and relationships on the page. (And don’t even get me started on the joy stolen due to copyright infringement and the environmental impact of this particular tech…)

But then, I’m also a person who is still in awe of sunrises and sunsets. Who loves sitting around a campfire telling stories and laughing. Who enjoys camping simply because it gets me away from all that tech. And this year, maybe more than any in a while, a weekend of camping with friends to celebrate the simple things in life is just what I needed.

Note: I had intended to write a blog about camping. My fingers took me another direction. Apologies. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

Noticing a New Detail

A couple months ago, as I noted in a previous post, I hopped across the pond for a little adventure with my bezzie mate. During our time, we visited Liverpool, Dublin, and drove along the north coast of Wales. It was a wonderful trip, and I can’t wait to return.

While we were in Dublin (which occurred mid-trip), we noticed that every shop had these postcards of Dublin’s doors – these really cute doors, at that. After a bit, we started to notice the doors themselves on some of our wanderings. It’s interesting – how you can exist alongside something without noticing. Then someone (or something) points it out to you. And you see it everywhere. It’s like when you get a new-to-you car, and suddenly you see that make/model everywhere. Or you learn a new word, and it pops up three more times that day – and you swear you’ve never heard it before.

And here’s the thing – the doors really are cute.

So cute, in fact, that we started noticing them elsewhere – like in Liverpool, where we had already spent a few days wandering around.

Then cut to the incredibly idyllic town of Llandudno in North Wales. (Seriously – I could live in this town…)

“They do doors better than we do” is not a phrase I ever thought I would utter. It was such a fun detail to have brought to our attention, and it changed the way we moved through some of the neighborhoods – or even paths we wanted to take because ‘that door over there’ looks neat.

I tell ya, this trip has got me seriously reconsidering my own front door.

What sort of details do you notice when you’re out adventuring?

Baseball Season has Begun

I know what you’re probably saying (at least if you are a fan of Major League Baseball, that is): “The season began a while ago. Where have you been?”

Yes, my cubbies have been at it for a couple months now. That’s not the baseball I’m talking about.

I’m talking about a baseball with fewer homerun hits, much shorter players, and perhaps a little more chaos. I’m talking about my nephew (on the pitcher’s mound in the photo below). Yep, I’m not just a writer – I’m an auntie, as well.

I’ve been a Chicago Cubs fan all my life – meaning I was raised by Cubs fans. I can’t imagine cheering for any other MLB team – and, yes, I cried when Bryant threw that final out to Rizzo in the seventh game of the World Series in 2016. I’m not ashamed to say it. (Our dog was even named after cubbie Ryne Sandberg, my dad’s favorite player.)

I never considered that baseball might enter my life in another way – and certainly not that I would be rooting for the enemy (my nephew goes to the school that was my school’s arch rival ¯\_(ツ)_/¯) – but here we are (he’s also being raised by Brewer fans, but we can forgive him of his childhood innocence and love of his parents). It’s become another thing for us to bond over (we also both love LEGOs and matchbox cars), a way for auntie to support and root for her not-so-little-anymore bean. We even take in games (our state has both college-league and minor league teams, so thankfully it doesn’t break the bank to for the entire family to do so):

I’ve lost track of the times I’ve reminded him that the only thing he has to do to make me proud is go out onto that field and try. And try he has.

HIs favorite position to play is catcher (followed by pitcher), and it’s hard not to reminisce about that first game when he would jump up from that crouched position and could barely throw it back to the pitcher’s mound – and now he can launch it to second base like it’s nothing. His confidence and skill have grown over the years, and he’s even passing his knowledge on to his little brother (who last year started in his own little league). [I’m not sobbing giant proud auntie tears – you are.]

It’s baseball season, y’all. And I can’t wait to see how much both my nephews grow this season.